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6 Reasons Timing is Stopping you From Finding Love
Excuses told by a fearful society hoping to be wrong
It’s innumerable and permeable in acceptance that timing is a crucial part of relationship success and health.
Two people perfect for each other that meet at the wrong time are doomed from the point of entry. It’s a meta-acceptance wrapped among a myriad of circumstances backed by self-evident truths.
He’s perfect, but in another year or two.
She’s great, but I’m not in the right place now.
He or she is a great person to marry, or maybe take to meet my parents.
We often conflate our own issues into some degraded, demented form of love.
Those issues surrounding us often have very little, if anything, to do with love to begin with.
On responsibility.
Much like the stories chalked up in the bible, we’ll shield weird decisions we make by condensing them into analogies and stories that make little sense.
These connections are important to us — being human and being alive can often be emotionally painful undertakings.
But they’re also admittedly wrong. Life isn’t an analogy for something. At the end of the day…
